The Rumor Mill: A Resource on Gossip for Tweens and Teens
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Be sure to see our three-part series on gossip this week:
The
Impact of Gossip on Teenagers
Gossip—those whispered
conversations, secret-sharing, and rumors—can significantly affect teenagers’
lives. While it might seem harmless or even entertaining, gossip can have
serious consequences for both the gossiper and the subject of the gossip. Here, we explore why gossip is an issue for teenagers and how they can navigate it.
Why
Does Gossip Happen?
- Social Bonding: Gossip serves
as a form of social grooming. It helps teens make sense of new information
and allows them to feel “in-the-know” as they build connections with
others. However, this bonding comes at a cost: trust can be lost, and
feelings can be hurt.
- Counterproductive
Relationships: Ironically, gossip often undermines its purpose of building
relationships. It can lead to broken trust and strained friendships.
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The
Harmful Effects of Gossip on Teens:
- Self-Confidence
and Self-Esteem: Being the subject of gossip can destroy a teenager’s
self-confidence and negatively impact their self-esteem. It’s essential to
recognize that words have power.
- Mental Health: Gossip can
contribute to depression, anxiety, and even suicidal thoughts. The weight
of rumors can be overwhelming for vulnerable teens.
- Eating
Disorders: The stress caused by gossip can trigger unhealthy coping
mechanisms, including eating disorders.
- Reputations and
Relationships: Gossip can alienate friends, ruin reputations, and lead to
relational aggression. Teens may find themselves ostracized due to rumors.
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This resource explores what gossip is, helps teens identify alternatives to gossip and features one page that outlines how a victim of rumors and gossip can handle it proactively, along with a crisis number to use, if needed.
How
Teens Can Deal with Gossip:
- Avoiding Gossip:
- Encourage your teen to be cautious about sharing
private information.
- Remind them that sometimes a story is not theirs to
tell.
- Teach them the golden rule: treat others as they
would want to be treated.
- Suggest confidential options like talking to parents,
siblings, or trusted school staff.
- Stopping Gossip:
- If your teen witnesses gossip, they can choose not to
spread it further
- Encourage them to decline information they’re
uncomfortable with.
- Help them move on rather than seeking revenge if
they’ve been the target of gossip.
- Promoting
Anti-Bullying Efforts:
- Teens can start or join clubs that condemn gossip,
creating a positive peer influence.
Remember, gossip isn’t just idle chatter—it can and more shape lives. By fostering empathy, kindness, and open communication, we can help teenagers navigate the tricky world of gossip and build healthier relationships.
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